Throttle Grip Position for Her Pace Setting Control
Also known as Speed Dial, Her Hand on the Gas
The Throttle Grip position puts her firmly in control of pace and intensity while he lies back and surrenders to every touch. She decides when to speed up, when to slow down, and exactly when he gets to let go. It is a playful power shift that turns anticipation into the main event.
How to do it
He lies flat on his back on the bed with a pillow under his head and his legs relaxed and slightly apart.
She kneels between his thighs or sits beside his hips so she has a clear view of his face and easy reach with both hands.
She begins with slow, light strokes using plenty of lubricant, watching his reactions closely.
She gradually raises the speed and pressure, then eases off whenever he gets close, building the tension in waves.
He keeps his hands at his sides or above his head, letting her set every change in rhythm.
When she decides the moment is right, she opens up to full speed and guides him all the way to release.
Tips
Agree beforehand on a simple word or signal so he can tell her when he is near the edge.
A quality lubricant makes long teasing sessions far more comfortable and pleasurable for him.
Eye contact and a few whispered instructions from her can make the sense of surrender even stronger.
Try alternating hands or adding a gentle twist at the top of each stroke to keep sensations fresh.
Afterward, swap roles another night so both partners get to enjoy being the one in charge.
