Steering Hips Position for Her Controlled Rhythm
Also known as The Steering Wheel, Her Pace Missionary
The Steering Hips position lets her lie on her back yet set every rhythm by lifting her pelvis to guide each thrust. It turns the classic face to face pose into a playful exchange of control, where she decides the pace, depth and timing. Couples who enjoy shifting power will find it both intimate and thrilling.
How to do it
She lies comfortably on her back with her knees bent and her feet planted firmly on the bed.
He kneels between her thighs and enters her slowly, keeping his own movements gentle and steady.
She presses through her heels and lifts her pelvis, raising and lowering her hips to set the speed and angle.
He stays responsive, matching her lead and holding still whenever she pauses or changes direction.
She can grip his hips or thighs to pull him closer or hold him back, guiding every thrust exactly as she wishes.
Tips
Slide a firm pillow under her lower back so she can lift and hold her hips without tiring quickly.
Agree on simple signals or words beforehand so he always knows when she wants faster, slower or deeper movement.
He can rest his hands on her waist to support her lifts without taking over the rhythm.
Keep eye contact throughout, since watching each other react makes the shared control feel even more intimate.
Switch roles midway so he leads for a while, then let her take back the wheel for the finish.






