Backrest Bliss Position for Her Seated Lap Ride
Also known as Lap Press, Chair Embrace
The Backrest Bliss position puts her in his lap on a sturdy chair, pressing down with her full weight for deep, close connection. The solid backrest supports him so he can hold her securely while she controls the rhythm. It is an intimate, face to face favorite for couples who love closeness and eye contact.
How to do it
He sits upright on a sturdy armless chair with his back resting firmly against the backrest and his feet flat on the floor.
She straddles his lap facing him, placing her feet on the floor or on the chair rungs for leverage.
She lowers herself slowly onto him, letting her full weight settle into his lap.
He wraps his arms around her waist or hips to steady her while the backrest supports his upper body.
She presses down and rocks her hips forward and back, setting a pace that feels best for her.
Both partners stay close, chest to chest, using kisses and eye contact to deepen the connection.
Tips
Choose a strong, stable chair without wheels so neither partner has to worry about tipping or sliding.
A cushion on the seat adds comfort for him during longer sessions.
She can grip the top of the backrest for extra leverage and deeper grinding motions.
He can guide her hips gently with his hands to help find a rhythm that pleases you both.
Slow circular hip movements often feel more intense in this position than fast bouncing.
